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I have
experienced working with all sorts of trauma, including sexual, physical
and emotional abuse (whether experienced as a child or an adult), rape,
car crashes, domestic violence, bereavement and divorce. I work with
issues from childhood such as neglect, abandonment, divorce and being
the child of an alcoholic or otherwise addicted parent(s).
My approach is informed by people like Peter Levine
(Waking the Tiger), Babette Rothschild (The Body Remembers)
and Robert Scaer (The Body Bears the Burden). Their theories
(and these are being increasingly supported by current medical research)
view trauma as resulting from trapped energy in the body. Simply put,
the theory is that trauma occurs when our normal responses to fear,
which are fight or flight, are not available to us. (An example of this
would be if a child is abused by one of his/her parents. You may be
able to run away from your own home, but in the moment of trauma that
option is often not open to you, and you can’t fight a parent who is
much bigger and stronger than you and on whom you depend for your well
being. Thus, you can not fight and you can’t run/flight). The energy
that our bodies generate within us to enable us to fight or run away
gets trapped inside the body, creating blocks that limit our freedom of
movement and expression. It is this trapped/frozen energy that needs to
be released in order to overcome the trauma.
The second major way in which trauma affects us is
in the cognitive distortions they create within our belief system. As
an example, if you are violated as a child, you grow up believing that
it is normal for others to violate your boundaries. These cognitive
distortions need to be recognized and changed to more positive and
healthy beliefs about the Self.
I therefore use both somatic techniques (paying
attention to feelings and sensations in the body) and cognitive
techniques including EMDR, which is a relatively new technique that
combines both cognitive and somatic approaches to help those who have
been traumatized to heal.
Healing trauma is delicate work. I usually wait
quite a few sessions, until the client and I have gotten familiar and
comfortable with each other, so that a very safe and secure container is
created in which the trauma(s) can be healed. There is a very fine line
between releasing and thus healing a trauma and simply re-traumatizing
someone, and it takes a sensitive and competent therapist to help guide
the client through this delicate process.
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